Monet Wagner lives in Indianapolis.
莫妮特·瓦格纳住在印第安纳波利斯。
She is a photographer and a mother of three children.
她是一名摄影师,也是三个孩子的母亲。
She shares her life after divorce openly on Instagram.
她在Instagram上公开分享离婚后的生活。
She talks about how she learned to be money-independent. She also talks about how she got used to sharing care of the children. And she talks about how she moved past heartbreak.
她谈到自己如何学会经济独立,如何习惯共同抚养孩子,以及如何走出心碎。
She says divorce feels like death.
她说离婚感觉像死亡一样。
But she also wants to show her children the power of hope.
但她也想向孩子展示希望的力量。
More and more people share divorce stories on social media.
越来越多的人在社交媒体上分享离婚故事。
Most of these people are women.
这些人大多是女性。
This content is called "DivorceTok".
这些内容叫“离婚抖音”。
People give advice here, and they also look for advice.
人们在这里给建议,也找建议。
Some creators do not post about their exes.
有些创作者不发关于前任的内容。
Others talk in detail about marriage problems and the divorce process.
另一些人则详细讲婚姻问题和离婚过程。
Some trends come back again and again.
有些潮流会反复出现。
For example, "Hot Divorce Girl Summer".
比如“热辣离婚女郎夏天”。
There are also videos that show a "glowing" look after divorce.
还有视频展示离婚后“容光焕发”的样子。
Jane Hamilton is a maternity nurse in North Carolina.
珍·汉密尔顿是北卡罗来纳州的一名产科护士。
She has over 5 million followers on TikTok.
她在TikTok上有超过500万粉丝。
She shared details about her husband living a "double life."
她分享了丈夫过“双重生活”的细节。
She also had a "Jane Independence Day" party.
她还办了一个“珍独立日”派对。
That day was originally her wedding anniversary.
这个日子本来是她结婚纪念日。
She says sharing her pain makes her feel less alone.
她说分享痛苦让她不那么孤独。
Because many people have the exact same experience.
因为很多人有完全相同的经历。
Alex Daly is 41 years old.
亚历克斯·戴利今年41岁。
She started posting about it about three years after her divorce.
她离婚约三年后开始发布相关内容。
She wants to reach people. They are "still deep in it."
她想触及“仍深陷其中的人”。
Tasha R. Dunn is an associate professor at the University of Toledo.
塔莎·R·邓恩是托莱多大学的副教授。
She says it is much easier to connect online than face to face.
她说在网上建立联系比面对面容易得多。
Because it is easier to find people with the same experience online.
因为在网上更容易找到有同样经历的人。
Jackie Coombs is a lawyer in Los Angeles.
杰基·库姆斯是洛杉矶的律师。
She warns that divorce posts online can be used as proof.
她警告说,网上发布的离婚内容可能被用作证据。
But she thinks social media is key to "destigmatizing" divorce.
但她认为社交媒体是“去污名化”离婚的关键。
Daly has also gotten negative comments.
戴利也收到过负面评论。
Some people say she is "ruining people's lives."
有人说她在“毁掉人们的生活”。
But this gives her more drive to share.
但这让她更有动力分享。
She says divorce "can be an amazing start."
她说离婚“可以是一个惊人的开始”。