Monet Wagner is a photographer in Indianapolis and a mother of three children.
莫妮特·瓦格纳是印第安纳波利斯的一名摄影师,也是三个孩子的母亲。
She openly shares her feelings and life changes after divorce on Instagram.
她在Instagram上公开分享离婚后的情绪和生活变化。
She talks about being financially independent, co-parenting her children, and moving past heartbreak.
她谈到经济独立、共同抚养孩子,以及走出心碎。
She says divorce can feel like death. But she also wants to show her children the power of hope.
她说离婚可能感觉像死亡一样,但她也想向孩子展示希望的力量。
More and more people, mostly women, share unpolished divorce stories on social media.
越来越多的人,其中大多数是女性,在社交媒体上分享不加修饰的离婚故事。
This content is called "divorce TikTok," and it gives and asks for advice.
这些内容被称为“离婚抖音”,既提供建议也寻求建议。
Some creators don't post about their exes, while others describe marriage problems and the divorce process in detail.
有些创作者不发布关于前任的内容,另一些则详细描述婚姻问题和离婚过程。
Related trends appear from time to time. Examples include "hot divorce girl summer" and videos showing people "glowing" post-divorce.
相关潮流也周期性出现,比如“热辣离婚女郎夏天”和展示离婚后“容光焕发”的视频。
Jen Hamilton is a maternity nurse in North Carolina. She has over 5 million followers on TikTok.
珍·汉密尔顿是北卡罗来纳州的一名产科护士,在TikTok上拥有超过500万粉丝。
She shared details about her husband's "double life". She also marked what should have been her wedding anniversary with a "Jen Independence Day" party.
她分享了丈夫过“双重生活”的细节,并以“珍独立日”派对纪念本应是结婚纪念日的日子。
She says sharing her pain makes her feel less alone. Many people go through the exact same thing.
她说分享痛苦让她不那么孤独,因为许多人经历着完全相同的事情。
Alex Daly, 41, started posting about this about three years after her divorce. She wants to reach people who are "still deep in it."
41岁的亚历克斯·戴利在离婚约三年后开始发布相关内容,目标是触及“仍深陷其中的人”。
Tasha R. Dunn is an associate professor at the University of Toledo. She says it is much easier to make digital connections than face-to-face ones. Online, it is easier to find people with the same experiences.
托莱多大学副教授塔莎·R·邓恩表示,建立数字联系比面对面联系容易得多,因为网上更容易找到有同样经历的人。
Los Angeles lawyer Jackie Coombs warns that divorce posts online could be used as evidence. But she thinks social media is key to making divorce less shameful.
洛杉矶律师杰基·库姆斯警告说,网上发布的离婚内容可能被用作证据,但她认为社交媒体是“去污名化”离婚的关键。
Daly has also received negative comments. Some people say she is "ruining people's lives." But this makes her more motivated to share that divorce "can be an amazing start."
戴利也收到过负面评论,有人说她在“毁掉人们的生活”,但这让她更有动力分享离婚“可以是一个惊人的开始”。