People are using “admin dates” to do boring life tasks with friends, couples, roommates, or other people. They meet in coffee shops, bars, or homes to pay bills, cancel subscriptions, and answer emails. The idea is to make hard chores feel easier and also spend time together.

Thema Bryant, a Pepperdine University psychology professor, said people can get things done and connect with others at the same time. She said admin dates can help with motivation, accountability, and connection. She also said seeing other people work can help people keep going.

At Northern Arizona University, 21-year-old roommates Alexia Ruvalcaba, Sami Hawkins, and Mandi Bluth often do this in coffee shops in Flagstaff, Arizona. Ruvalcaba said being together helps them get things done. They like places where many people are also working or studying.

Experts say people should plan the time, place, and tasks before an admin date. They also say not to invite bosses, because this can feel stressful. Dr. Aditi Nerurkar said a short, realistic task list can help people feel less overwhelmed and more able to work.